Life is really fragile and we should treasure our loved ones..
Yeh, life is really fragile and we should treasure the loved ones around us. It is only when they passes on will we realised the reality that sets in. but I m not too sure if I sound like a pretentious person when I said that but sometimes, you will be in conflict with your innerself with regards to your loved ones. I have been at odds with my father for the past many years because I could not agree with the way he do things. These things have affected my judgement towards him and my supposed love of a child towards his parents. He did no great harm but is so obstinate and stubborn that only people staying with him can understand the frustration of going through everyday life with him which my mom can attest to, having been with him for the past 30 odd years. Somehow, I dread the day that he leaves for another world but to compel myself to love him is too much for me to do. I always believe that love cannot be forced, it is so natural......and there is no right or wrong when you just happen to have this positive fuzzy feeling for someone. Sadly, in my father's case, I cannot sense it at all..... Sorry for going OOT, just need to rant a bit. Somehow the quoted statement triggered my thoughts and emotions.
My condolences to foolz even though I do not know her personally