A little about myself. Im 23 this year and never had a relationship before. I do have many crush but it didnt last more than a month. My social network of friends is rather small and engineering course made it worst. Im a shy introvert guy and is a geek. Im rather skinny and about 175cm.

Ths is a rather long post but summarised so do bear with it!

How it all began:

July last year, my friend FB PM me that she got a friend who will be taking the same Uni course as me. She gave me her number and we hooked up. She is one year my junior and 3 years younger than me.

Date #1
She wanted to come to my place to pick up my notes, but I choose somewhere after my work (Uni attachment). I met her, she was cheerful, a little skinny, but had a rather nice look. We had dinner at a restaurant. My first impression of her was quite bad. She is busy smsing while Im talking to her. She didnt talk much and I was initiating the conversation. In the end she insisted that she paid for our dinner as a token of passing her my notes. Honestly, she is quite nice looking, so I gave her the benefit of doubt and 'forgive' her actions.

We had a few sms exchanges over the week. Thank you and such and a few talk about sch life.
I was reading up books on pickup artiste and seduction techniques. Maybe I can practice on this girl. Yes I know is wrong but its my only chance. This is my chance to change myself after all the previous failed attempted.

Date #2
I didnt give her my textbook. I purposely create another chance to meet her. We agreed on the place. After my work, she sms me she is not feeling well and wanted to collect the books at the MRT station instead and go straight home. I told her I wanna eat and she agreed to accompany me. She talked while I ate. This time she didnt touch handphone and was quite talkative. I gave her some of my extra snacks.

After this 'date' we began to talk more over sms. However I only limit it to once a week, maybe 2-3 hours. Once over, I waited for another week to talk to her. Our topics began cheesier and very personal. So far she only initiated one sms to me. Im slowly beginning to fall for her.

Date #3
I needed one of my textbook back for reference. It was a Saturday. She do not wanna plan so I planned Vivocity. I chose the tables beside the sea view. She revised her subject while I do my referencing. I feel she was quite nervous? She is playing with her hair and stroking her arms. We had dinner after that and continued talking about other things. I paid for the dinner. We then walked around Vivo aimlessly. She denied a movie and I denied ice cream dessert. 2 to 9pm that day.

She wanted to eat ice cream but I was too full. I told her next time, she smiled. Our sms continued to be very cheesy and flirty, but is still kept to once a week. There is a ben and jerry ice cream festival. I ask her if she is interested to go but she rejected.

Date #4
I sms her to jiayou for her exam revisions. After some time she jokingly said she wanted me to get her some candies. After a few days, I told her to meet me at her MRT station so I can pass her the candies she wants. She was happy and said it was so nice of me to give her that.

Date #5
Her exams are over and I sms her that I would like her to bring me go eat ice cream. She agreed, but decided to bring my that friend along. She took it as an outing. Was disappointed but was okay with it. I planned the outing again. That day she was hapilly talking to her friend, sometimes I just sit there and listen to them talk. Me and her firned didnt talk much, think she is also shy. Anw my crush and I flirted behind her friend's back. It was drizzling and Im lazy to take out my umbrella. She told me to share with her, then she say next time if liddat she no need hold umbrella cause will be I holding it =.= That day she was asking me whether I wan this or that, wanna share food or not, asking quite alot of question. Go home that time she ask me whether I had enuff dinner, afraid that I will be hungry.

We went home and I sms her. She didnt reply much.

Sms her few days later, oso didnt reply much.

The date before her exams result I told her to share with me. No reply. Next day I call her, she said she will call me back, but didnt. Sms her a few days later again. Didnt reply much. Wish her merry xmas, no reply.

I wanted to give up now. But my friends told me to hang on.

Date #6
After a few days again I sms her that I wanna meet her, at the same time can return my notes and books. She agreed. She is slowly opening up again. I assked her what happened, like y she ignore me. She said her results not very good then moody, then parents nag etc. I just listen to her talk. I felt that she was controlling her emotions, holding back her tears from her trembling voice. I reassured her everything will be fine, give some time for things to settle.

Now the sms are pretty much like before, but alot less cheesy.

Do I stand a chance with her if I confess to her? So far she only sms less than 5 times and it has been 5 months+. Alot of things is my first time doing for this girl. I built up confidence and some balls to ask her out, talk to her, employing techniques and strategizing every move and be a man I never did before!

Thank you for reading!