Recently my ex-gf mom has been msging me asking if I wanted to go back together with my ex. I've told her Im already attached for coming to 6 months and there is no way we could be together again. My current gf knew about this and I've told her that I've nothing to hide, however due to this she has always been suspicious of me and doesn't seem to trust me whenever my phone starts to ring. Initially I didn't mind her checking on my phone as I've nothing to hide, but she would still suspect me and keep insisting that I am not truthful to her. We would then quarrel over this issue and she would cry. Sometimes after work I would be feeling tired and when we start to quarrel over small issues I would ignore her. This has been going on for the past 2 months.
One day, after a movie, I got a sms from my ex-gf mom and I told her it was just a sms wishing for CNY. She didn't trust me and wanted to see it for herself. At that point I just lost it and told her that if she doesn't believe what I've said then we should break up. I then walked off wanting to cool down. She held onto me and I just brushed her away.
Since then I have regretted for throwing my temper at her. Tried ways to contact her. I knew she was hurt and kept apologizing to her. She told me that she needed some time off, and i gave her space. It was only yesterday that she started to sms me, but she wouldn't want to meet up. And kept saying that she needed more time as she is still hurt and everyday she will be out with her friends.
During the sms, she told me that I did not gave her enough freedom and did not care about her feelings as I only wanted things to go my way. I tried to explain that we will work it out but her mind is fixed that history would repeat itself and wanted time to think it through.

Now I'm upset and want to know what are your views, I still love her very much and she told me that she still loves me. But the actions she is giving me is totally the opposite.

Sorry if its long winded, just want to let it out.