Setting parents' expectations aside, would you ladies personally accept getting married with just a simple ROM only? No fetching of bride, no chosing of auspicious date, no gatecrash, no church wedding, no outdoor wedding, no wedding gown, no ceremony, no banquets (maybe just a simple lunch/dinner with family members)? Just a simple ring exchange @ ROM n sign the papers..

Sometimes I get so 'sian' of the wedding plannings I just thought of stop planning anything and simply get married the simplest way.. But I'm scare I would come to regret in future for not cherishing the chance of being a bride and make that day extra special..